ARE YOU STRUGGLING TO MEET YOUR USUAL LEVELS OF ENGAGEMENT and SATISFACTION WITH WORK?
Sometimes in life we can suddenly and often unexpectedly begin to experience a resistance to our usual way of working. It can seem like a huge struggle to complete our everyday tasks.
Often this arises when a ‘change’ or new life event arises and adds to the stress, pressure and responsibilty we are already under from our work.
Individuals with high levels of responsibility can be reluctant to seek help - as they feel they should be able to ‘hold it together’. This is usually in contradiction to what they really need to do.
Seeking help at such times can help the individual and the organisation overcome what may be a barrier to their success at both levels.
Typical symptoms of resistance include:
Feeling tired, wired, anxious, even overwhelmed by the many stresses of work and home life.
Feeling stuck, not able to use your strengths and hampered by the implied weaknesses you and others think you have?
Feeling like you’re not reaching your potential, you not getting the results that you want from the actions your taking.
Feeling that you don’t have the skills, capabilities or confidence to do what you need to do.
Feeling there a is current challenge or block that you need support to overcome.
Your in transition, looking backwards and forwards and freezing in the middle.
The most common cause of stress, is work reated stress, with 79% saying they frequently felt it. (Statistica)
1 in 14 UK adults, 7%, feel stressed every day at work. (CIPHR)
The most common external stressors at work - that we can't control - and may require us to change are:
A new boss - can leave us subject to different management styles, support and expectations of what we should be doing.
A change of culture - change is natural in business can change quickly for a variety of reasons we can't control - forcing us to adapt, before we ready.
A change in role and what is expected of us, requiring a new outlook and a different set of pressures.
A key figure in our team may change, either removing those who support us, or introducing those who don’t.
The most common internal life changing stressors that can make us feel flat and unmotivated at work are:
Sickness - When we (or someone close to us) develops a major illness, it can affect us emotionally, as well as take up our time.
Divorce or separating from our partner - can be emotionally draining and a long legal process may be involved.
The menopause- the physical and emotional changes women experience with the menopause can significantly affect their work.
Bereavement - Losing someone we love can have a huge impact on our emotional state and we need time and support to grieve.
The causes of stress and burnout are not limited to the eight situations descibed. Whatever your current situation, if you feel you need some time to explore, please contact us.
The benefits of coaching from stress to resilence to wellbeing:
The coaching space gives you the opportunity to acknowledge your own uncertainty and practice small steps safely before you commit to bolder action.
The coaching relationship supports a deeper persepctive and reflective learning.
Building self-compassion and self-care pratices supports you and impacts those you are in relationship with at work and in your home life.
By focusing on your strengths, you get to be who you are -not what you should be. This creates more ease. Ease creates confidence and unlocks possiblities and potential, giving you greater access to your own creativity.
Reigniting your purpose and realigning your uninque strengths empowers you to live in the moment more often, and live your own life with more awareness, freedom and ease.
“I am learning to be comfortable with uncertainty and change -not easy - learning to trust my strengths has given me the confidence to be more resilient and to perform in a way that was not possible before I started coaching” Stephen “Gaynor has a friendly and personable style that made me feel instantly at ease, valued, and calm. We explored how I could approach Board development with my trustees, and also how I could improve my own resilience and wellbeing. Being a charity CEO is a lonely and demanding job, and the pressure can make it difficult to trust your own judgement when things get tough. The impact of the sessions, for me, has been profound. Gaynor has shown me how to have faith in my capability, my judgement, and my vision. She listened intently and unpicked for me my true feelings and helped me find my True North. Gaynor was able to identify key messages from what I was saying, and pin down exactly the things that sparked joy for me. From there, she has helped me create a plan of action which feels both achievable and exciting. I would recommend Gaynor’s coaching to anyone – even if you don’t really feel that coaching would be helpful, I can promise working with Gaynor will make you feel you can take on anything!" Fran Francis, Charity CEO - Sheffield UK “Working with Gaynor has exceeded my expectations. I have learned not only skills to enhance my leadership ability, I have also learned how to be a better Father and Husband. Our sessions went in a direction I could not have anticipated, and I am very grateful to have had the experience!” Neil Doyle
Follow these three simple steps to get started
1. Book a 20 minute Introductory call by filling your details in the form opposite
2. Meet with Gaynor to get a feel of whether working with Gaynor is a good fit for you.
3. Book a package of sessions to suit your needs at a time that suits you.
Once coaching begins you will receive free Membership of Mindfulness Unleashed 24/7 for the duration of your coaching.
Accreditation with the International Coaching Federation
Gaynor re-trained with the Mindful Coaching School in 2020.
She is PCC accredited with the International Coaching Federation.
Where will the coaching take place?
Coaching is provided at Newtown Linford, Leicestershire LE6 or via zoom, to suit the needs of the individual, team or organisation.
If you need more movement, Gaynor offers sessions that involve a walk in Bradgate Deer Park.
How long do sessions last?
An introductory call last 20 minutes
A coaching session lasts 60 minutes.
Voice dialogue sessions are 90 minutes.
Complete the form and invite Gaynor to coach you!
According to Human Design Gaynor is a 3/5 Splenic Projector. Her authority is to “be invited. Simply fill in the form, and we’ll get back to you within two working days. If there is a preferred day and time, please let us know.
“Gaynor really helped to me develop self-awareness and confidence and helped me to start making decisions. She combined expertise with compassion and sensitivity. She encouraged me to be kinder to myself and to understand my own strengths and use them!" Matthew Jones, Contract Manager, Liverpool Being coached by Gaynor has allowed me to see what I really want to achieve and to test how realsitic it is. This alone has given me so much clairty. We then went beyond to create plans that align with my ambition. Iam now giving my time where it creates most impact. Saahera Mohamed, Trustee, Leicester
JUST SOME OF THE ORGANISATIONS WE’VE WORKED WITH
